Hamad saud Alkhaldi and his son
He left a week before the baby was born , now he’s 9 months and last time Hamad saud Alkhaldi contact me was on Valentines day 02-14-15 to say that he loves me but he didn’t even ask for he’s baby 😥
He got really mad on 6-30-15 because I send him a picture of he’s son having he’s first birthday and this is what he answers me .. I have no words I just feel so disappointed/ What a shame of man 😦
I just hope God take care of my baby and me I don’t really care anymore about a guy who lie saying that he loves me when he’s unable to love he’s own blood ..
Plus I don’t need to pray 5 times a day and lie the rest of the day or just been an double moral person who you think u are cheating ??
God knows who u are in real life a heartless person .. !
But I believe in God and I know he’s the one who’s going to ask you about this precious child who is a blessing for me and should be for u too , he was born the first day of Ramadan and not even for that reason you can have some fear in God he wanted to be that way .! I’m glad that he chose me to be the mother of this beautiful baby .. Al 💖hamdudillah !
Saudi Children Left Behind 
Haramaleyk😱
I just felt that I needed to make an obligatory “sorry” on behalf of all the men in Saudi Arabia. A man takes care of his family, he has to be there as the provider. It’s what our fathers and grandfathers cherished because of it’s nobility. I’m Saudi who spent quite along time studying and moving between the states and I understand where you’re coming from. I want to help you make him fell the necessity of him being there for his child. If you have his number, address or location just pass it through to me and insha’Allah he will show a bit of maturity. Stay strong ..
Let’s face it. These kids are born out of wedlock so technically speaking, the men don’t have to take care of them. If they want to marry the woman and raise the kids then thats good but they’re not obliged to. I’m not saying what they did is right, God will SEVERELY punish them either in this life or the next.
Makes me sick of how when women get pregnant out of wedlock and then call on the men to take care of those kids. YOU made the choice to get pregnant as well! You decided to sleep with the guy and gave him full consent. Of course the guy is also to blame but ultimately the woman opened her legs
i’m saudi girl and i feel so sorry for you american girls! this is really pathetic to believe them (saudi boys) even with these stories, those saudi boys are not serious in relationship, they only had sex and have fun!! and if they want to get married they only marry their cousins!!
Don’t judge everyone! There are good and bad people in each COUNTERY . Those should be ashamed of themselves, but for sure there are other good fathers and husband just like my husband.
I feel even more sorry about you because you will be the proud wife of one of those nice and very honorable guys ..
at least we are in a free nation where we can drive , vote and do anything we want and our kids will have more chances of develop fair rights and respect for woman …
No like you girls that all you can get is a shame of man in an incestuous relationship treating you as a toilet using your body when ever he wants and you are not even free to say no !
I just felt that I needed to make an obligatory “sorry” on behalf of all the men in Saudi Arabia. A man takes care of his family, he has to be there as the provider. It’s what our fathers and grandfathers cherished so much because of it’s nobility. I’m a Saudi who spent quite along time studying and moving between the states and I understand where you’re coming from. I want to help you make him fell the necessity of him being there for his child. If you have his number, address or location just pass it through to me and insha’Allah he will show a bit of maturity. Stay strong ..
Thanks but I dont see how you can help me
he is saying that he want to sue me ..and he hates me bc I make his life misserable and i will receive the same ..
I just felt that I needed to make an obligatory “sorry” on behalf of all the men in Saudi Arabia. A man takes care of his family, he has to be there as the provider. It’s what our fathers and grandfathers cherished because of it’s nobility. I’m Saudi who spent quite along time studying and moving between the states and I understand where you’re coming from. I want to help you make him fell the necessity of him being there for his child. If you have his number, address or location just pass it through to me and insha’Allah he will show a bit of maturity. Stay strong ..
DO NOT GIVE UP, what ever it takes!!!!! you have to contact his family to let them know that their beloved SON left his CHILD behind for no reasons. Ooh GOD, how can he sleep at night while his CHILD far away!!!!!!!!!!!
I feel sorry for poor children, but don’t worry it will be a nightmare till they die! when they remember that they left their children. Those fathers are not the whole picture of Saudi . My husband is very kind , loves me, and a wonderful dad to our daughter, and those who left their children should be ashamed of themselves.
Thank you very much 😉
Wow! these Saudi men are treacherous!
what do you expect from a Saudi Bedouin, ignorant, and never seen an uncovered girl in his life, to do when he arrives to the USA. He will forget about Islamic teachings and starts his animal behavior , searching for sexual relations . They never care about anybody , but to fulfill their sexual needs. which they know it is forbidden in Islam without marriage, and they know if they do such thing in Saudi Arabia ,they will end up in Jail . Finally i think it is the girls mistake to accept a relationship with such people without an Official marriage, with Official documents to help here in court later on if he left here . The marriage should be done in both faiths , to ensure the wife right .
I cant see him as you described , like and animal because he wasn’t acting like that or like he never saw a woman in the whole life because he does have a past and other girls and you may not believe me but our relationship wasn’t based on sex only .. there was much more than that, so it is so easy to fall in love when you feel that someone understand you and cares about you feelings ..
I meant , he had never seen an uncovered girl in his country . you said that he had other girls in his life , that means the guy is looking for sex only and not a serious relationships. Why did he dump all those girls that he knew? with all my respect to you , i think he fooled you with his nice talk. ALL what they want is some girl to have fun with while studying in the USA ( may be a girl friend ) as they cannot have such relationship in Saudi Arabia . My advise if any girl have a relationship with such people for Saudi Arabia , do not have sex before official marriage , On both faiths , Insist to get married the Islamic way as well in the Mosque , and to have a copy of the marriage papers as a document . If he is a nice guy as you said , he should at least take care of his child my dear . take care
Dear Gentleman . you are right is just maybe that deep inside my broken-heart , I still want to believe that some how he had feelings towards me ..
Ren, this is a terrible story….what is the situation now?
How dare he even threaten to sue you? He is full of bullshit to say the least.
I am really wondering how this all turned to such a mess?!
Is it important to you to recognise your son in KSA? If so, even if he agrees it will be a long road as techinally KSA does not recognise children outside marriage for registration purposes.
If you don’t have an official marriage you need to prove to a sharia court that you were married by word calling on witnesses and then after that if the court approves you can start discussing a possible late registration which again will be cumbersome and only he personally can initiate it.
Then again, at least he is registered in your country….
I truly dont know what to say….if I had been in such stress I believe I would have closed the chapter ‘ Hamad’, took my son and moved on…I dont believe I would be able to carry on thinking about this mess and repulsive behaviour of Hamad. I would have simply deleted him from my life and only speak of him to my son when required- for this I would seek special psychological counselling on how it is best to approach the issue at a young age to ensure I am doing the right thing.
P.S Gulf men I believe tend to lie very easily- almost like story tellers when it comes to convincing a woman to be with them because in their countries it is required they make the extra effort to date. Thus they tend to promise the sun and the moon…..this I guess comes to contrast with the west, when they dont need to ‘sell a story’ to date a girl,,,it is more normal and common….Then many misunderstandings can happen….mind you all the middle east is ridden with such stories and many women outside marriage are even imprisoned the least….it is a totally different psychology- societies with a pathogenic almost warped relationship to sex and marriage…..and with little respect for childrens rights (only arising at the will of the father)….